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Also in this siction Editorials, Features Amusements Financial News IN LIVING a FRIDAY. MARCH 5. 1965 19 Mary Spate engaged Agnes Irwin graduate will be bride Of Harrison H. Clement, of Bryn Mawr Woman needs I heiress hi maestro (iel married'? Thomas Schippers And Nonie Phipps Are called serious 9L '-sifeajAMiaaiar wjsf Robertson, whose marriage will take place later that day in Old St. Davids Church, Radnor.

The bride-to-be is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Fanshawe Lindsley. of Newtown Square. Mr.

Robertson's parents are Mr. and Mrs. George Wilfrid Robertson, also of Newtown Square. MARCH 19 DINNER Mrs. Emile C.

Geyelin, of Villanova. will entertain at a dinner party March 19 in honor of Mr. Georges Pretre, of Paris, who will conduct the Philadelphia Orchestra that afternoon and the following evening. LUNCHEON FOR DEB Mrs. J.

Miller Kalbach, of Villanova. will give a luncheon Sept. 7 at the Philadelphia Country Club for Miss Sally Anne Harkins, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Herbert Perrin Harkins, of Wynnewood.

Miss Harkins will be presented at a luncheon June 17 at the Merion Golf Club with Miss Anne M. Rouse, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. George P. Rouse, of Gladwyne, and Miss Theresa D.

Budd, daugh- Mrs. Walter F. Keenan, of Radnor, and Mr. John F. Spahr, of Gladwyne.

announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Mary Fife Spahr, to Mr. Harrison H. Clement, son of Mr. and Mrs. Clement, of Bryn Mawr.

The prospective bride, a graduate of the Agnes Irwin School, attended Pine Manor Junior College. She was presented to society in 1963. Her grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Boyd Lee Spahr, of Ilaverford, and Mr.

and Mrs. Vincent Porter Wood, of Bryn Mawr. Mr. Clement, who was graduated from Episcopal Academy, is attending the University of Pennsylvania where he is a member of the Sphinx Senior Society. He is the grandson of Mr.

and Mrs. Martin Withington Clement, of Rosemont, and of the late Mr. David Evans Williams. BRIDAL LUNCHEON Mrs. Deborah Rush, of "Sydenham," Paoli.

will entertain at a bridal luncheon Saturday in honor of Miss Elizabeth Fowler Lindslcy and her fiance, Mr. George Wilfrid i 7 Bf .4. me 4 my- Myeis Studiu F. Spahr, whose io Mr. Harrison son of Mr.

Miss Mary engagement H. Clement, and Mrs. Clement, of Bryn Mawr announced. tor of Mr. and Mrs.

Harold J. Budd, of Wynnewood. The debutantes are members of the graduating class at the Agnes Irwin School. COMINGS AND GOINGS Mrs. Terhune Valdes, of Rosemont, has returned from a five-week stay at the Breakers in Palm Beach.

Miss Deirdre Linda Dixon, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Morrill Dixon, of Newtown Square, will spend the spring vacation in Hamilton, Bermuda. The debutante will be presented June 22 at a luncheon at the Aronimink Golf Club. BIRTH ANNOUNCED Mr.

and Mrs. M. Roy Jackson, of Chester Springs, announce the birth of a son, Hardie Scott Jackson, March 2. Mrs. Jackson is the former Miss Gretchen L.

Schaefer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Adolph 0. Schaefer, of Broad Axe. GALLERY RECEPTION Invitations have been issued by the Wood mere Art Gallery to a reception Sunday afternoon, March 14, of an exhibition of paintings by Neil Kosh and of drawings selected by a jury.

Hostesses will be Mrs. Alexander Abels, Mrs. Thomas Con- cannon. Mrs. Horter.

Mrs. Henri Marceau, Mrs. William, Newbold, Mrs. Henry C. Pitz, Mrs.

Franklin D. Sau-veur. Mrs. Samuel Seitchik and Mrs. R.

J. Spina. IVALTERSDORFF-HEIBERGER The Rev, and Mrs. Robert M. Heiberger, of Tamaqua, formerly of Philadelphia, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Roberta Ann Heiberger, to Mr.

Robert L. Waltersdorff, son of Mr. and Mrs. George E. Waltersdorff, of Morrisville.

The couple will be graduated in June from College. Muhlenberg Inquirer Fhotos by Russell F. Salmon, Staff Photographer A narrow black patent leather belt accents the waistline of a chic spring suit in Anglo's shadow-check wool. From collection to be presented by David Zelinka Wednesday from II A. M.

to 4 P. M. at Bonwit Teller. Emily Post's eliquctlc advice By SUZY KNICKERBOCKER NEW YORK, March 4. They all think in Palm Beach that Nonie Phipps, older daughter of Michael and Mol-lie Phipps of the real estate fortune, won't be long in marrying Thomas Schippers, the handsome conductor.

Some gossips even go so far as to say Tommy has bought a house 20 minutes from New York into which he will eventually move the blonde heiress. Naturally, I mean after the wedding bells. ENJOYING SKIING Roger Vadim is at Megeve with Jane Fonda and while she's enjoying the skiing and parties and things he's concentrating on finishing a film script. Apparently Roger doesn't get paid until he turns in the finished product and "on dit" he needs "le cash." He leads an expensive life himself and besides he has to help support his little daughter Nathalie and his little son Christian as well as their little mothers, Annette Stroyberg and Catherine Deneuve. IT'S CALLED 'LOVE' Incidentally, the film Roger's scripting is entitled "Love." It would be unthinkable to call it anything else.

Countess Vivi Crespi and James Mason (they're not really serious they just act serious) were at El Morocco together. Actually they've been everywhere together the theatre, the "Lord Jim" opening and doing the spots with Alan Lerner and Kitty Carlisle. Now what do you suppose would happen if they were really ser ious DUKE IS FETED The Duke de Cadaval, called Jimmy by his friends, and his new blond bride, the former Mile. Pritz, had an elegant party for 18 of his most elegant friends at Maxim's in Paris. Jimmy is very rich, which makes it very nice for including the former Mile.

Pritz. People have also been enter-taining for Jimmy people like a Rothschild or two, the Baron Alexis de Rede and Francoise de Laneladp. ihp t. tractive fashion editor. Jimmy used to be Genevieve Fath's beau until she fell in love with a young swinger.

Somebody should have told her that, while swingers go out of style, dukes never do. Sfiy child needs Special attention Q. I have been living in a large apartment house for five years. Recently, a new tenant moved in across the hall. A friend said it was my duty as an old resident to call on this "newcomer.

I know this is customary in a small community but I didn't think this applied to those living in a communal dwelling. Am I right1 A. You are quite right. It is neither necessary nor customary for the older residents to call on new tenants ir. a large apartment house, Q.

I am going to be married in the spring. I am going to wear a white suit. My sister is going to be my maid of honor and I would like very much to have two of my best friends as bridesmaids. I have been told that it is not proper to have bridesmaids when the bride is wearing street clothes. Is this true? A.

J'm but bridesmaids would be out of place at a wedding where the bride is wearing ordinary street clothes. Q. When invited to spend the weekend or longer in someone's house, does a guest have the privilege of turning on the television set when she wishes or must permission be asked of the hostess? A. Unless the guest has been told by her hostess that she may turn on the television set whenever she wishes, she must ask permission. Menial help Battles with hubby Ease her 'But they shouldn't' By ANN LANDERS Deir Ann: I fed right up to here with your stand that there is' no justification for striking a mate, regardless of provocation.

You, of all people, Ann Landers, should realize that human beings are not made of atone. Mortal man has his weaknesses. When a person Is pushed to the brink he can lose control and behave in a way that is not quite saintly. My husband, for example, has made science of needling me. When I reach the limit of my endurance I simply crack him.

one in the teeth. After that he lays off for two or three weeks and everything is lovely. Any physician will tell you that bottled tension can lead to physical illness. I have learned to deal with my problem in a manner that is effective for me. So why don't you itay out of if? ONE BLOW BETTY Dear One: 1 didn't write to you, Doll.

You wrote to me. If you feel you are handling the problem by belting your husband in the teeth and if he Hands for it it's all right with me. All experts agree that should be worked out of the system. The manner in which people rid themselves of anger is what distinguishes them from the lower animals. 1 would suggest that you buy some cheap dishes to throw jgainst tht basement walls.

Or, you feel th tension building, icmb a floor or wash wall or beat rug. Civilized people vent their hostilities on things, not on other people. Dear Ann: Please don't bury me. Answer me. What can be done about a foreman who takes his men apart, piece by piece, and bares their faults for all to see? He never criticizes a person privately.

He must have an audience and the larger the better. What makes a man want to strip other men of all dignity? Why must he embarrass and humiliate them befor their fellow workers? At present he is picking on a young man who is handicapped. The boy is conscientious and eager to do well. He tries harder than anyone in the shop because he is determined that his output be as great, and the quality of his work as good, as the others. This foreman has heaped so much abuseoo the poor fellow it is heartbreaking.

I have a hufich- the foreman needs a few sessions on the couch. Would you care to comment? OBSERVER OF MAX'S INHUMANITY. TO. MAN Dear Observer: Your hunch Is my hunch. Sadistic and brutal behavior is a sign of a disturbed personality.

People who must ridicule and humiliate others are basically very unhappy with themselves. The foreman may have serious doubts about his own masculinity and is fearful that others may have doubts, too. This could prompt him to behave in an overly aggressive way. The couch could be helpful, but first the foreman has to accept the fact that he needs help. Cotton stretch socks Cool, last longer It's hard to keep an active, growing child outfitted in socks.

Either he grows out of them while they're still almost new, or he wears holes in socks before outgrowing them. Now there's a happy solution, according to the National Cotton Council. The first all-cotton stretch socks are on the market. They'll fit any size and wear three times longer than regular styles. Socks are knit from a remarkable new stretch cotton yarn, made by spinning combed cotton around a tiny core of stretch fiber.

This exclusive spinning process results in socks that combine the advantages of stretch with the coolness, comfort, and absorbency of cotton. The new stretch cotton socks are available in sizes for men and women as well as children. One of the season's newest suits has a narrow belt worn loosely just below the normal waistline. Caramel wool twill, suit by Zelinka Matlick has false pocket flaps above the waist. Bonwit Teller.

jyS 4 a i tX Tt syl Starlet discusses to care for Crowning glory' By LYDIA LANE HOLLYWOOD, March 4 -In poetic language, hair has been called a woman's crowning glory. In terms of fashion, hair sets the key a style that is suitable for a prom is out of place in a classroom. "I love variety," Debbie Watson said. "And I wish they did not make Karen wear her hair the same all the time." She was referring to the girl she plays in NBC-TV's "Karen" series. In personal life Debbie, 16, has four favorite hairstyles-hanging loose around her shoulders, piled on top of her head with feathered ends, a flip and tucked under in a pageboy.

Debbie takes great pride in keeping her hair healthy. She has a brush with natural bristles, which are better for the hair than synthetic ones. "A trick to removing the lint we pick up during the night," said Debbie, "is to use your brush with a nylon stocking drawn very tight across it. It is always surprising to see the amount of dust and lint you can brush out of your hair." We talked of shampoos and the importance of finding one that makes your hair easy to handle. "When I was modeling 1 learned that you build an immunity to one formula.

To avoid this I always alternate shampoos, using one type one week and another the next." Artichoke hearts Have you discovered how much a tossed green salad benefits from the addition of marinated artichoke hearts (available in 6-ounce jars)? If you are preparing a salad for four, you can use four cups of the greens and half the jar of the hearts plus olive oil and wine vinegar dressing. How By DR. ERNEST G. OSBORNE What makes a child shy? It's not always easy to tell. Perhaps we've pushed him too fast and too hard.

But it's also possible there are inborn differences in the way a youngster reaches out and associates with others. But whether or not we know what makes our young un shy, we have to do something about it. Mrs. A. feels that a parent shouldn't pay any attention to such foolishness.

So she tries to push her Billy into play groups and into making friends with other children. Not so with Mrs. B. She feels sorry for her Anne because of the child's shyness. So she continually hovers around Anne trying to make things easy for her.

Both such attempts to rid children of shyness, opposite though they may be, have the same sort of result causing the boy and girl to draw more into their "shells." Best results come when opportunities for play are provided for shy children and they are allowed to move into them at their own pace. An elegant dessert For calorie-counters Here's an elegant dessert that caters to calorie counters. Substitute wine for one -third of the liquid in a gelatin mix. Use white wine for lemon or lime gelatin; red wine for raspberry, strawberry or cherry. Mold in a tuna fish can to insure individual portion siz of cup.

While weight-conscious diners consume under 100 calories, non-dieters may garnish with stewed fruit blended into whipped cream. A crisply checked spring suit has a short, fitted jacket, its waistline encircled with a narrow patent belt, and a softly gathered skirt. Fabric is white wool crisscrossed with black. By Zelinka Matlick. Bonwit Teller.

Belted look makes comeback Narrow belts, marking a normal waistline, or worn slotted through at hip-level as on a Norfolk jacket, are turning up on many spring suits. The most dramatic are narrow, neatly buckled little black patent or white leather belts, no wider than a tape measure or dog leash. Most of these belted suits have long lean jackets, inspired by Balenciaga, and any number combine button interest with belts. Those women who prefer a three-piece suit costume are likely to find belts featured another way under the jacket over a tuck-in blouse. There is no question that the belted look is returning to fashion, and it looks newest just now on a spring suit.

Rubye Graham A silk tweed suit with fly-front closing and false pocket flaps at hip level is neatly and narrowly belted in black patent. By Zelinka Matlick. Among new suits at Bonwit Teller. Wf.